Raising teenagers – It does get better!

mona

You would think that this being my second time around with raising teenagers that I would have seen it coming. The attitude. The attitude. And OMG the fricken ATTITUDE. Let me explain. I have four kids. Two in their 20s (round 1) and two tweenagers (round 2). Why? My theory is that a very deep, [...]

Dear twitter skanks

Beautiful hair commercial girl.

I realize that you live under a rock. Actually, in some shabby basement is probably closer to the truth than a rock. And in a shady part of town. So shady that you’re afraid to venture out into the streets of your desolate neighbourhood. (Note to your neighbours: this is not a reflection on you. [...]

I only yell at my kids when they don’t listen

Hamster

The last few days here in Montreal have been beautiful. And while most of me is really happy that spring has sprung, there’s a small part of me that cringes when I open the windows to let in some of that fresh air. Especially when my kids are home. Here’s a snapshot of yesterday: Me [...]

How I almost got to buy a condo in Florida and get drunk with old people

Well here we are, back in Montreal where it took about 13 minutes for us to get back into the routine. And while I like the routine, I’m homesick for Florida. The sun. The schedule (none). And the time with my family. (So happy they don’t live in Alaska.) During the last six hours before [...]

Apparently meditating DOES bring wisdom. And clarity.

If you follow this blog, you know that I’m afraid of flying. And that although I’ve been doing quite a bit of it lately, I have this crazy notion that you shouldn’t mix flying with alcohol. So before my trip to Florida I decided to download a guided meditation onto my iPhone. You know. To [...]

An open letter to single mothers – Listen to the voices in your head!!!

Avoiding a Pitfall - Arrow Man Jumps Over Hole

In yesterday’s post I revealed that my life as a single mother has not always been, um, a fairy tale life. Specifically, when I said this: “ . . . once upon a long time ago I was a young, single mother and writing saved me.” I didn’t intend to have a life of hardship [...]

Writing is a gift

Blog

We’re told that the most important thing about writing is to have something to say. Which I completely agree with. Most of the time. This post is about those other times. The times when I have nothing to say. And yet still suffer from a compulsion to say it. And by “it” I mean nothing. [...]

Teenagers!

My son, who would rather be ANYWHERE ELSE

We thought it would be a good idea to get me away from my computer and go for a walk on the beach this morning. You know. A little fresh air and exercise before work. It was truly a great idea. We had the sun. The ocean. The sand. And a teenager who clearly thought [...]

Happiness is a well-worn pair of flip flops

Flip Flops = Paradise

I’m relieved to report that Jonathan, my 13 year old, and I arrived safely in Florida last night. The first thing I did when we got here was rip off my Montreal, winter clothes and dig out my shorts and flip flops. I LOVE my flip flops. They’re the second key ingredient to a happy [...]

One word. Four syllables. Sounds like maniac.

3 am is a lovely time to be awake. It’s when all your demons come to life. Right now the hamster is going over my flight later today. Of course everything is ALWAYS worse at 3 am but I’m thinking that closing my eyes and humming may not be enough this time. So I’ve decided [...]